Trans man, Midlands
‘Doing Bodywork with Beck is one of the best decisions my wife and I have ever made. As a trans man, sex has always been complicated for me, but following a difficult recovery from my second stage of lower surgery things had become trickier than usual. While my dysphoria was considerably reduced, we were struggling to connect with my body as something sexual again rather than a surgical site, and as a result had ended up being very avoidant about sex.
Even just after one session with Beck, things were dramatically improved. She gave us the encouragement and validation to explore together how we could reconnect on a bodily and emotional level. As well as providing a space in which we could openly talk through our fears and hopes for our sex life, she gave us practical guidance about exercises and practices we could adopt.
I imagine we will continue to use many of the things we learned with Beck for the rest of our lives. I am so grateful to Beck for helping me to reconnect with my wife after a difficult recovery, and to really feel present during sex in a way I haven’t been able to before.
I would highly recommend Beck to anyone struggling with their relationship with their body — she is warm, open, kind, validating, and has a real gift for this work.’